Edventures in Normalcy

and, it hit me kind of hard.  It reminded me of parts of the movie Shallow Hal.  In the end, it’s what you want, and who you want to be with, that you need to approve of.  Not what others think.  If you want to be happy in life, you need to find what makes you happy and hold on to it.  If you want to look for what makes others approve of you, will you ever be happy?  No, not if anything you like is not approved.  My grandparents were always so adamant to teach my cousins and I that we have to be ourselves to be happy.  It took me a long time to finally believe this and stick to it.  I have come to a point in my life where I don’t care what others think, and strangely enough, I believe more people like me and approve of me now than ever before.  Rule to take away from this, be yourself, and look for your own approval in life.  Never be ashamed of yourself and your choices in life.

This past Saturday, the 30th, Rebecca and I were going to go to the Art Museum in Allentown.  This was delayed on week.  This in the end seems to have been a blessing in disguise.  The snow from yesterday would have been a substantial issue on driving back.  A week is definitely worth waiting.  I am excited and looking forward to it.  She’s a pretty cool person and fun to talk to.

Spoonerism in my stomach. So long has it been, but unquestioned in being welcomed.

I have joined this dating site. I rather like it. User’s are pretty much a community and friendly. I spent half an hour trying to get the leopard background to display on the my page. It was well worth it. I have made a few friends and found many interesting users. I recently found one girl I find to be of interest. A gamer at heart which I like. I showed her profile to my Cousin Bobby. He read her description of what she was looking for and he felt the sensitivity and caring were traits I have and share with those close to me. Hope to get to know her more. Some of the other users seem really stuck up, but the most popular user by way of vote, is down to earth and respectable. She really says it how it is. The only thing so far I found to be odd is that on the highest rated members, there is not ONE man. That struck me as odd. I consider myself to be personable. I want to see if I can network with enough friends and get enough friends to join to get up there. I think Networking is how life is. I know myself to be 3 degrees from Lady Gaga and 3 degrees from Ronald Reagan, so why not work with what I have and see how well I can have this go. I am slowly working on being more open with myself and those close to me. I find it liberating, exciting, and frightening at the same time.